Recently I was put thou this and not having to be able to sit down with the people at my church and talk about this with friends that I don’t know if I want to go back in it. Ever since being friends with them; it’s cause me nothing but drama. I do however feel that if they or myself bring up the past one more time I am done. I can’t handle it nor can my heart.
Being done is not easy for me seeing how I have this attitude of never giving up but when it’s best for me to do so then I will. Today I went thou the bible to look for some verse and pray about it. I must say thank you living hope for giving us a chance to talk it out and work some of it out. A friendship can’t be work thou one sided and if that person fills that way then we can’t be friends.
Matthew 18:15-17
“If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother. But if he does not listen, take one or two others along with you, that every charge may be established by the evidence of two or three witnesses. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church. And if he refuses to listen even to the church, let him be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector.
Ephesians 4:31-32
Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.
Proverbs 15:1
A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.
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6 Secrets to be a Good Christian Husband:
In order to be a Good Christian Husband there are many things you should do. The beginning of them all is to let yourself be guided by the Word of God. If you are a Good Man as God intended for you to be, you will be a Good Husband according to God's Word.
6 Secrets to be a Good Christian Husband:
1 ♥ Love Your Wife - God is love ♥
2 ♥ Be Faithful to Your Wife - Ephesians 5: 3 ♥
3 ♥ Submit To Your Wife - "Wow, that is a new idea," you say. No, not really. It is found in Ephesians 5: 21, "Submit yourselves to one another out of reverence for Christ." :) ♥
4 ♥ Be The Head Of Your Wife - To be the head means to take the responsibility - NOT to be the "boss". You should take the full responsibility for the life that you and your wife have together. In order to do that properly, you also have to take the responsibility to study the Word of God in order to find God's will for you and your wife.
5 Respect Your Wife - You should respect your wife as a human being. But also respect her as a woman - more specifically, the woman that was given to you by God. She is very special, because she is the one made by God specifically for you.
6 Give Her Security - Your wife needs security. This is one of the fundamental things that you should provide. But "security" does not only involve money, although financial security is part and parcel of the security that you should provide. However, if you give your wife a million dollars "to keep her happy" while you go gallivanting all over, you are not providing her with real security. Real security is for her to know, beyond a shadow of doubt, that you love her with all your heart. Real security is for her to know that you will never, ever be unfaithful to her. Real security is for her to know that she can always rely on you to assist her with anything and everything that she requires your help with. Real security is for her to know that you find her attractive. Real security is for her to know that you do not wish to have sex with any other woman on earth. And real security is to provide for her and the family financially. You have to provide your wife with security because that is what God expects you to do. But you also have to provide her with security because a lack of security is a big part of why women would eventually cheat on their husbands - to try and find someone who will give her security.
Finishing a book!
Last night I finished the first book that Amanda wrote and I am so grateful and thankful that I read it. The whole book was amazing and wonderful on the advice.
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