Learning about something troubling!

I found out that my friend is getting divorced and of course she is someone that I look up to but I don't believe in divorce. You made vows that for better or for worse that you would stick thou it together and now you are getting it. I am not sure what to think about it.

10 bible rules for a happy marriage

‎10 Bible Rules for a Happy Marriage - Family Blessings - Home Sweet Home
1) Never bring up mistakes of the past- Stop criticizing others or it will come back on you. If you forgive others, you will be forgiven (Luke 6:37).
2) Neglect the whole world rather than each other - And how do you benefit if you gain the whole world but lose your own soul in the process? (Mark 8:36)
3) Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled - And don't sin by letting anger gain control over you. Don't let the sun go down while you are still angry (Ephesians 4:26).
4) At least once a day, try to say something complimentary to your spouse. Gentle words bring life and health; a deceitful tongue crushes the spirit (Proverbs 15:4).
5) Never meet without an affectionate welcome. Kiss me again and again, your love is sweeter than wine - (Song of Solomon 1:2).
6) "For richer or poorer" - rejoice in every moment that God has given you together. A bowl of soup with someone you love is better than steak with someone you hate (Proverbs 15:17).
7) If you have a choice between making yourself or your mate look good, choose your mate. Do not withhold good from those who deserve it when it's in your power to help them (Proverbs 3:27).
8) If they're breathing, your mate will eventually offend you. Learn to forgive. I am warning you, if another believer sins, rebuke him; then if he repents, forgive him. Even if he wrongs you seven times a day and each time turns again and asks forgiveness, forgive him (Luke 17:3,4).
9) Don't use faith, the Bible, or God as a hammer. God did not send His Son into the world to condemn it, but to save it (John 3:17).
10) Let love be your guidepost - Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. Love does not demand its own way. Love is not irritable and it keeps no record of when it has been wronged(1Cor. 13:4,5).

Christian Courtship

❤ ❥ Guidelines to Godly Husband :

A Godly Husband should be God fearing, as the fear of God is the beginning of knowledge and wisdom (Psa 111:10, Pro 1:7; 9:10), so that he may discern the will of Yahweh (Pro 14:8, Rom 12:2) be a prudent man who is able to lead his family both practically and spiritually in the ways of Yahweh (for a call to prudence, see, for example, Pro 10:
5; 13:16; 14:8; 15:5 and 24; 22:3, and also Amos 5:15; for leadership, see Gen 3:16 as well as Tit 2 and 1Cor 11:3) ), so that it might be well with him and his children after him (Deu 4:40; 5:33; 6:3 and 18; Jer 7:23), so that he can present his wife unblemished on the last day (Eph 5:25-27), and so that his house may be faithful even after his death, that he can say confidently with Joshuah "As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord" (Jos 24:15). teach his children in the way they should go, day and night (Deu 6:7; 11:19; Psa 78:5; Pro 22:6) be able to support his own, so that he may not be worse than an infidel (1Ti 5:8)

❤ ❥ Guidelines to Godly Wife :

A Godly Wife should be God fearing as the fear of God is the beginning of knowledge and wisdom (Psa 111:10, Pro 1:7; 9:10; 31:30), so that she may know about her role as a wife and mother (references will follow below) and learn quietly in all submissiveness (1Ti 2:11) be submissive to her husband, i.e. follow his lead practically and spiritually (Titus 2:5, 1Pe 3:5-6), and love her husband and their children (Titus 2:4) be willing and able to run her husband's household affairs prudently, economically, readily and effectively, so that he can safely trust her with this task (Pro 31:10-31) be modest and pure (1Ti 2:9-10, Tit 2:5, 1Pe 3:3-4)

The Vow recap!

First of all between reading the book first and seeing the movie second is competle different about how the movie happen and what actually happen in real life.
First of all, I must say that i love the book and it's inspiring and loving about how a man could put his love for his wife and never give up on their marriage. It's shows us all that there should not be divorces which is my believe that there should not be any divorces.
In the Movie it shows the man giving his life to his wife and wants to do what is best for her. What confused me is that how they played the relationship with the parents/in-laws